You have a story of who you think I am

You have a story of who you think I am, and you have a story around how you think I think about you, which then shapes how you perceive me and speak to me.

I have a story of who I think you are, I have a story around how I think you perceive me which then sometimes guides the way I respond to you.

This is the crux of a portion of what triggers me the most, being misunderstood.

I’m not saying I’m perfect, not at all..

The purpose of this post is to say that when I have the opportunity to connect with someone through eye contact, all the stories, they disappear, we meet each other as we are, in our wholeness.

Any insecurities around each other’s perceptions of each other disappear, I have to say I’m a bit tired of witnessing people suppress who they are because of their interpretations of how others will view them, it’s super draining and it’s boring.

The biggest gift you could give anyone at any time is to show up completely as yourself, no matter the consequence, this world has been carved out for your unique imprint to shine and then coalesce with those that synchronise, vibrate and align with you.

I’m grateful to have a friend who’s been sending me these incredible love-filled voice messages every week usually upon waking up, and her love reminds me that I am perfect exactly as I am, that I don’t need to change who I am to be accepted by anyone.

There’s a lot of people pretending to have their shit together when they don’t, don’t model yourself based on other people’s misperceptions of who they think you are because you think they are more distinguished or have more to offer than you.

You are complete within your own wholeness and I want to see the part of you that you are most afraid of and I’m there to sit with that part of you and witness you because that’s the part of you I resonate with the most and feel the most alive in my body witnessing.

Our time is limited and shielding ourselves from deep intimacy just works against the natural flow of our internal rhythms and innate desires.

The next time you see me, I want you to know I’m not looking at you from your perception of how you think I view you, but I’m looking to connect with who you truly are, nothing more, nothing less.

And if you’re not looking for that, that’s cool too.